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Anthony Malchiodi

Anthony Louis ""Tony" " Grumpy"" Malchiodi

Sunday, March 2nd, 1941 - Thursday, January 31st, 2019
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BANGOR - Tony “Grumpy” Malchiodi, 78, passed away January 31, 2019 at a local hospital. He was born March 2, 1941 in Weehawken, N.J., the son of Anthony and Yolanda (Temellini) Malchiodi.
Tony enlisted in the US Air Force in 1959 serving until 1962. In 1961 he married Judith Jamieson. Grumpy began a career which spanned nearly 22 years of dedicated and rewarding service to the Bangor Fire Department, retiring in 1984 as a Lieutenant. He then worked for the Bangor Water District, later Penobscot County Jail and lastly with the State of Maine Department of Transportation.
Grumpy enjoyed his special time with his five grandchildren, making Sunday mornings a ritual for breakfast at Bagel Central, and was one of the founding members of the Bangor Fire Department Liar’s Club.
In addition to his parents, Tony was predeceased by his wife, Judy; an infant daughter, Mary; and a son, William “Willie” Malchiodi. Surviving are three children, Katie Guernsey and husband, Garrett, Kerry Bushway and husband, Chris, Eric Malchiodi and partner, Shelley Tozier; five grandchildren, Emma and Abby Guernsey, Olivia and Isaac Bushway, and Michela Malchiodi; one brother, Louis Malchiodi; special partner, Linda Hake; Linda’s grandchildren, whom Tony always thought of his own, Angelica, Silas, Evelyn, Alexis, Jarrod, Kalyn, Cody, Bella, Sabrina, and Brooklyn; and a “third” daughter, Nancy Preble.
Relatives and friends are invited to call 5 to 7 p.m., Tuesday, February 5, 2019, Brookings-Smith, 133 Center Street Bangor. A Funeral Mass will be held 11 a.m., Wednesday, February 6, 2019 at St. Paul the Apostle Parish, St. Mary’s Catholic Church, 768 Ohio Street, Bangor. The Rite of Committal will be held at Mt. Pleasant Catholic Cemetery, Bangor, immediately following the Funeral Mass. The family invites relatives and friends to share conversation and refreshments at the Family Reception Center of Brookings-Smith, 163 Center Street, Bangor, immediately following the committal, Wednesday. Those wishing to remember Tony in a special way may contribute in his memory to the Fire Museum Hose #5, PO Box 25, Bangor ME, 04402. Condolences to the family may be expressed at
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  • Visitation

    Tuesday, February 5th, 2019 | 5:00pm - 7:00pm
    Tuesday, February 5th, 2019 5:00pm - 7:00pm
    Brookings-Smith, Bangor
    133 Center Street
    BANGOR, ME 04401
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  • Service

    Wednesday, February 6th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Wednesday, February 6th, 2019 11:00am
    St. Mary's Roman Catholic Church
    768 Ohio Street
    BANGOR, ME 04401
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    Rev. Frank Murray
  • Interment

    Wednesday, February 6th, 2019 |
    Wednesday, February 6th, 2019
    Mount Pleasant Catholic Cemetery
    449 Ohio St.
    Bangor, ME 04401
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  • Reception

    Wednesday, February 6th, 2019 | 12:00pm
    Wednesday, February 6th, 2019 12:00pm
    Family Reception Center of Brookings-Smith
    163 Center Street
    BANGOR, ME 04401
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Kathy Strout

Posted at 05:50pm
Dear Kerry, Chris, and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathy and Jeff Strout

Patricia Hill

Posted at 03:52pm
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts. I have many fond memories of Tony. My sincere sympathy, Tony's cousin, Patty
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Posted at 11:38am
Dear Kerry & family,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad’s passing. I know that my dad has very fond thoughts and memories of him. I am thinking of you all and sending my prayers. We truly appreciate your dad coming to Leo’s service and we are grateful that we got to see him in December.

Linda, I am thinking of you and sending my heartfelt condolences. May you cherish the special moments and times. My deepest sympathy, Dawn Beswick


Posted at 11:22am
Tony will be terribly missed. He was loved by all of us at the fire department and he will be cherished in our memories forever. I truly enjoyed working with Tony and we shared many good times and memories. I want you to know that even though I can’t be there physically during the service and I am with you all in my heart. My deepest condolences to the family, love Robert Burke,

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